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You open your college admissions portal, and the decision is not what you hoped for. Disappointment, confusion, and frustration are all normal reactions. When the flood of emotions passes, it’s time to focus on your next steps. Here’s practical guidance for navigating each possible outcome.

So, you’ve been deferred…

A deferral means you are still under consideration!

It is now imperative to follow the instructions the university provides.

These may include submitting a letter of continued interest, a brief essay, or completing an official deferral form on the college’s application portal. In a letter of continued interest, communicate authentically why this school is the perfect fit for you, and share any possible updates to your profile since submitting your application.

Send or update your mid-year grades.

This is usually the responsibility of your high school’s college counseling office, but check with your counselor about their preferred protocol.

Demonstrated interest (if applicable).

If the college tracks demonstrated interest, you may explore if they would accept any new letters of recommendation or possibly offer an alumni or admissions interview. Be prepared for the answer to be no. You could also try to squeeze in an official campus visit if you have not yet seen the school.

If a college DOES NOT want anything, then follow what they ask.

It is harder sitting and waiting, but following their directions is the best thing for your case.

So, you’ve been waitlisted…

Only accept a waitlist spot if you would truly like to attend the university.

Follow instructions from the college regarding what they require and/or accept.

This may include sending mid-year grades, a letter or essay of continued interest, demonstrated interest, or other updates.

Familiarize yourself with the colleges that HAVE accepted you.

Review your admission offers and decide which college would be your first choice; be prepared to submit an enrollment deposit to that school by the May 1 deadline in case you are not admitted off the waitlist.

If you do come off the waitlist after May 1,

and you still want to attend that university or college, secure your place at the waitlist school before you release your spot at the other school to which you’ve deposited.

So, you’ve been denied…

First, let yourself feel the sadness fully.

Your feelings are valid, but remember that admissions decisions do not define you.

Next, accept the decision and focus instead on the colleges that have accepted you.

One of the colleges that has given you an enthusiastic “yes” may be the next opportunity you didn’t know you needed and end up being a better fit. You will go on to do incredible things no matter where you end up, if that’s what you are determined to do!

Do not appeal a rejection.

It is extremely rare for admissions decisions to be overturned (generally with a 1-2% success rate). Do not contact the admissions office to vent.

Keep perspective.

Perhaps you can apply to this institution later, either as a transfer student or for graduate or professional study. For now, open your heart to the other colleges that are eager to welcome you and invest in your success.

By Aubrey Groves, 51�Թ� Professional Member (TX)